Telegram · Relationship analysis

Telegram Chat Analyzer

Export your chat history as JSON from Telegram Desktop and get a structured read on the relationship.

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Free to try · No credit card · Upload your result.json

Telegram exports are unusually complete — full history, precise timestamps, and no arbitrary limit on how far back you can go. That makes it one of the best sources for seeing how a relationship changed over time, rather than how it feels this week. Long histories are where trajectory becomes visible.

How to export your Telegram conversation

Produces a result.json file

  1. 1Open Telegram Desktop. The phone apps cannot export.
  2. 2Open the conversation, then click ⋮ in the top right.
  3. 3Choose Export chat history.
  4. 4Untick photos, videos, voice messages and files — keep only the text.
  5. 5Set Format to JSON, then click Export.
  6. 6Upload the result.json file it creates.

What you get back

  • An attachment read for both peopleGrounded in the ECR-R, the scale used in actual relationship research — not a personality type.
  • The cycle you are both inWho pursues, who withdraws, and what sets it off — quoted from your own messages.
  • What actually repairs itSpecific things that have worked between you before, and what to try next.
  • Evidence for every claimEach conclusion cites the messages it came from, so you can disagree with it.

Your Telegram conversation is never stored and never used to train anything. It is sent once, analyzed, and discarded. Many chat-analysis tools keep your conversations and train on them — we built ChatMend so that we simply never hold them. Read the policy.

Telegram questions

Can I export from the Telegram phone app?

No. Export is only available in Telegram Desktop on Windows, macOS or Linux. If you only have your phone, paste the conversation instead.

Should I choose JSON or HTML?

JSON. The HTML option produces a web page for reading, which cannot be parsed as data.

What happens to links and formatting in my messages?

Telegram stores formatted text in pieces. We reassemble them so a message containing a link reads as the full sentence rather than losing words.

Does it include secret chats?

No. Secret chats are device-only by design and are never included in an export.

See what your Telegram conversation is really saying

Free to try. Nothing stored. Takes about a minute once you have the conversation.

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