From messages to a pattern you can actually read
ChatMend takes a conversation you already have and turns it into a clear, evidence-based report. Here is exactly what happens — and how your data is handled at every step.
Bring a conversation
Paste a text thread or upload a file (plain text, CSV, or JSON export). ChatMend reads and parses the messages right in your browser to detect who said what.
Map the two people
Confirm which two speakers to analyze and give them names you recognize. If more than two people appear, you choose the pair.
Choose depth and analyze
Pick the relationship type and how deep you want to go. Only the selected messages are sent over an encrypted connection for AI analysis.
Read a clear report
Get a structured report: a health read, attachment signals, the conflict cycle, evidence linked to messages, and grounded next steps.
What the analysis actually looks at
ChatMend reads communication behavior — not personalities — and grounds every read in attachment-informed research.
Attachment signals
Patterns that may suggest secure, anxious, avoidant, or fearful-avoidant tendencies — described as signals, never diagnoses.
Conflict cycles
Recurring loops like pursue-withdraw: who moves toward connection under stress, and who moves away.
Emotional tone
Where warmth, tension, defensiveness, or shutdown appear — and which topics shift the temperature.
Repair attempts
How often repair is tried after friction, who initiates it, how long disconnection lasts, and whether warmth returns.
Communication shifts
How the dynamic changes over time — response speed, message length, and engagement across the timeline.
Evidence linking
Each finding ties back to specific patterns in the thread, so insights are grounded rather than vague.
Privacy is part of the flow
You are analyzing conversations you would never want exposed. Here is the honest path your data takes.
Read on your device
Files and pasted text are parsed locally in your browser. Speaker detection happens before anything leaves your device.
Only the selected messages are sent
When you run the analysis, the chosen messages are transmitted over encrypted HTTPS/TLS to our cloud function for processing.
Not retained after analysis
The conversation text sent for analysis is processed in real time and isn't kept on our servers after the response is returned.
Results live in your account
Your finished report is saved to your account so you can revisit it — and you can delete any report at any time.
Three levels, same evidence-first approach
Pick how thorough you want the read to be. You can always run a deeper analysis later.
Snapshot
A quick read: health grade, attachment labels, and the key strengths and risks.
Deeper Dive
Detailed profiles, conflict themes, and therapeutic recommendations.
Comprehensive
Full analysis with quadrant mapping, suggested scripts, and a communication timeline.
See the kind of report you get
Walk through a complete, anonymized example before you analyze anything of your own.
View the Sample Report →ChatMend supports reflection and therapy preparation. It does not diagnose and is not a replacement for a licensed professional. AI analysis can be wrong and cannot see the full context of your relationship.
Ready to see your pattern?
Bring a conversation and get a clear, evidence-based read in minutes.