Clear insights, not vague advice
Every ChatMend feature is grounded in your conversation data and backed by attachment-informed research. Here is everything it surfaces.
Attachment Style Read
See patterns that may suggest secure, anxious, avoidant, or fearful-avoidant tendencies for each person — presented as signals, not diagnoses.
Relationship Pattern Map
Visualize pursue-withdraw cycles, emotional bids, and response patterns that define the dynamic between two people.
Emotional Triggers
Identify the moments where tone shifts — which topics cause distancing, defensiveness, or shutdown in the conversation.
Repair Capacity
See how often repair is attempted after conflict, who initiates it, how long disconnection lasts, and whether the relationship returns to safety.
Evidence-Based Insights
Every finding links to specific text patterns. No vague interpretations — see the evidence behind each signal.
What To Do Next
Get practical, grounded conversation guidance based on the actual pattern — not generic relationship advice.
What you get back
A structured, readable report — not a wall of text or a single mysterious score.
Relationship health read
An at-a-glance grade with emotional tone and overall state, backed by a plain-language summary.
Attachment map
A two-person radar across secure, anxious, avoidant, and fearful axes — so you can see the dynamic, not just labels.
The core pattern
The recurring cycle the conversation keeps returning to, broken into the steps that drive it.
Pattern evidence
Specific, quoted examples that show where each finding comes from in the thread.
Risks and strengths
What to watch for, rated by severity, alongside what is genuinely working in the relationship.
Timeline
How the dynamic changed over the span of the conversation, period by period.
Next steps and scripts
Tailored suggestions and a way to open the conversation — grounded in the actual pattern.
Ask follow-up questions
Go deeper on any part of your report in plain language, with answers tied to your conversation.
Not another compatibility quiz
Most relationship apps gamify your love life. ChatMend gives you evidence-based pattern analysis.
Everyday tools beyond the analysis
Practical tools to help you communicate better — on the roadmap.
Ask ChatMend
Ask follow-up questions about your analysis. Understand specific patterns in plain language.
Tone Check
Paste a message before you send it. Get feedback on how it may land based on the relationship pattern.
Repair Message Builder
Get a suggested repair message after conflict — tailored to the dynamic, not a generic template.
Boundary Builder
Draft a boundary statement grounded in the evidence from your conversation history.
Put these features to work
Bring a conversation and get an evidence-based read on the pattern.